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Six Critical Steps That Practically Guarantee High Performance

Forbes Coaches Council

Originally published on Forbes.com

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Six Critical Steps That Practically Guarantee High Performance


Kimberly Svoboda, Aspiration Catalyst, Forbes Councils Member

Princeton, a beautiful red Thoroughbred horse, completed the third-round jump-off in the equestrian jumper competition. He easily sailed over the complex sequence of rails, flying in perfect sync with his rider. Completing the jumping course at high speed looked effortless, and they handily won the competition.

How did this beautiful horse and his rider achieve such high performance? Training, reinforcement, time and lots of patience.

Princeton is an off-the-track Thoroughbred (OTTB) and began his life as a racehorse. After a relatively unimpressive track career, he entered his subsequent career as a hunter/jumper show horse. Princeton knew how to run fast and safely without injury but had zero training in jumping. Before we talk about training, you should know that adult horses weigh an average of 1,000 pounds and are prey animals, so flight is their primary method of survival. They are highly perceptive and sensitive. Remember the saying You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make them drink? The same is valid for training them.


The trainer started from the very beginning with Princeton to teach him his new craft. She utilized concrete, incremental goals; rewards; and lots of practice and praise. He was connected to a long lunge rope and quickly learned simple commands like walk, trot and canter. Eventually, he walked over ground poles and jumped smaller fences. He quickly understood and received positive reinforcement each time he did the right thing.

Next, the rider climbed in the saddle to teach the horse to pay attention to leg signals versus voice commands. Over time, with a lot of positive reinforcement and patience, the rider and the horse jumped beautifully together and could focus on improving technique and speed, leading to winning performances on the equestrian circuit.

This approach is practically the opposite of what leaders do when expecting high performance from their employees and teams. If we applied typical training techniques employed by a corporate leader, the horse would be expected to jump without much training and without the incremental goals to teach, breed confidence and build success. This approach is a recipe for frustration and failure.

What should leaders do to move their employees and teams to high performance?

1. Be clear. Set clear expectations on what good looks like. Invite your team member to share their views on the expectations—do they understand, and are you on the same page? What questions or concerns do they have? What support will they need from you? Come to a shared agreement on what success looks like, and discuss the next steps.

2. Meet people where they are. Princeton wouldn't have had any idea what was expected if they had put his rider on him and set him loose on the jumper course. It would have been dangerous for the horse and rider, and both could have been injured or worse. Instead of setting an impossibly lofty goal and leaving it up to our team members to figure it out, we need to create incremental steps for them and reward them along the way. Explaining the wholesale desired behavior change once and getting frustrated because it doesn't happen is demotivating. Do they have any idea how to get to the new behavior? Get clear on their current level of performance and partner with them to set the right incremental goals to move them gradually toward achieving their highest level of performance.

3. Leverage the strengths of individuals to build high performance. Each person has a unique set of talents that adds value to the team's performance. Leveraging them increases your employee's commitment and enables high performance. (Pro tip: Utilize a strengths assessment to quickly discover the top talents of each team member and help them put their strengths to work. I'm a Certified Gallup CliftonStrengths Coach, and it's one of my favorite tools to use when working with my clients.)

4. Break it down. Recognize and acknowledge the right behaviors. The trainer created a plan with incremental steps and rewarded the small changes in behavior that would ultimately lead to the desired result of making a speedy jumping round. Behavioral change is best accomplished incrementally with humans, too. Take your desired outcome and challenge yourself to break it into ten steps. Start with step one and see how quickly your employees pick up on these incremental steps and make significant progress toward the ultimate goal.

5. Work hard to catch people doing things right. Reward often and celebrate small incremental gains. Small successes will lead to significant achievements. Reinforcing the small wins and steps in the right direction keeps team members motivated and encouraged to keep going.

6. Synchronize your team by having a common goal. Teams that understand they need each other to achieve success collaborate more effectively and achieve more. Each person shares their unique talents with the team and everyone benefits. If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.

Taking the time to set expectations and help your team members take the steps needed will enable effective behavior change. Small steps add up to big ones. These incremental gains and celebrating success along the way will build confidence. When your entire team exhibits the right behaviors to achieve their "winning round," it will lead to long-term team high performance and success.






15 Big Misconceptions About Leadership (And The Truth Behind Them)

Forbes Coaches Council

Kim Svoboda, CEO of Aspiration Catalyst® featured in Forbes

15 Big Misconceptions About Leadership (And The Truth Behind Them)

For those who have never held an executive, senior leadership or management position, it can be easy to believe that leadership is simply about giving orders and writing reports. However, effective leaders go further, showing compassion and empathy while instilling motivation within their employees.

When a leader demonstrates how the company’s core values align with their own by living them daily, employees are more likely to want to work with that person to help the company succeed. Below, 15 members of Forbes Coaches Council explore some common misconceptions about leadership and what new leaders might actually learn in real time, once they are on the job.

1. Leaders Have All The Answers

Leadership is not about having all the answers; it is about knowing how to get to the best answer. For example, a problem arises, and the leader is turned to for a solution. A true leader will rally the team together to get insights from anyone else who has experienced a similar scenario, discuss critical factors and consider options, with actions and responsibilities clearly defined. - Sherre DeMao, BizGrowth Inc

2. Leadership Communication Isn’t Really ‘Doing’ Anything

Leadership is essentially about communication. The larger your organization gets and/or the more senior you get within it, the more your role becomes purely about communication—reinforcing vision, mission and values and giving context to the team. Many new leaders struggle with this, thinking that they are not “doing” anything. Communication is a vital aspect of leadership. - Mark MacLeod, Mark MacLeod, CEO Coach & Advisor

3. Leadership Is An Outward Command-And-Control Skill

People misunderstand leadership as an outward command-and-control skill. Self-awareness, emotional intelligence and empathy are the leadership strategies that allow us to succeed. These leadership strategies start with a strong foundation of self and allow people to build trust and connection with the leader, leading to higher job satisfaction, lower burnout and an increased bottom line. - Susan Hobson, Elite High Performance

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How To Help ‘Quiet Quitters’ Set Boundaries And Perform At A High Level

Forbes Coaches Council

Kim Svoboda, CEO of Aspiration Catalyst® featured in Forbes

How To Help ‘Quiet Quitters’ Set Boundaries And Perform At A High Level

Although the media buzz around “quiet quitting” may be relatively new, the concept of unhappy employees barely meeting minimum expectations certainly isn’t. In this new context, quiet quitting means workers only performing the main functions of their jobs, without going above and beyond—and it’s often the result of feeling burned out or underappreciated at work.

A manager who notices an employee seeming less than motivated can take steps to get them reengaged and more motivated to succeed in their role. Below, 15 Forbes Coaches Council members explain how to facilitate the setting of healthy work-life boundaries while still encouraging high performance.

1. Build Trust By Caring About Your Team

Care is an element of trust, and without it, people won’t engage or go the extra mile. If you support your people by caring about who they are, how they feel and where they want to develop, that will not only build the trust for them to share when they’re struggling and need tighter boundaries but also engage them to go the extra mile. - Susan Hobson, Elite High Performance

2. Create A Healthy Work Environment

Managers should treat quiet quitters as individuals who are trying their best and who deserve some respect for that effort. Instead of punishing them (or even pressuring them), managers should focus on creating an environment where employees feel safe enough to set boundaries around their work and personal lives without worrying about being judged or punished by their boss. - Willena Long, Career Boss Academy

3. Assign Tasks Based On Individual Strengths

Quiet quitters are disengaged and feeling hopeless, losing confidence in both themselves and the company. These employees are doing what is expected because they still care about doing their job, yet they don’t feel valued. Take time to assess their individual strengths and competencies, with the intention of assigning tasks that drive performance while acknowledging and reinforcing their value to the company. - Sherre DeMao, BizGrowth Inc

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Turning Talent Into Strength: The Power Of Naming, Claiming, And Aiming

Turning Talent Into Strength: The Power Of Naming, Claiming, And Aiming

You’ve likely heard people talk about the phenomenon of “Imposter Syndrome” – the propensity to feel like you’re going to be ‘found out’ by everybody due to this or that weakness you have, despite your many accomplishments.

In the face of this defeating self-talk, a greater focus on strengths can provide a validation of your skill set. It feels better because you’re using the natural talents you already have inside you and bringing them out, front and center.

15 Effective Ways To Gain More Influence In Your Space

Forbes Coaches Council


Kim Svoboda, CEO of Aspiration Catalyst® featured in Forbes

 

15 Effective Ways To Gain More Influence In Your Space

 

Even before the age of digital influencers, becoming influential was a major challenge for anyone. Now, in spite of an ever-growing number of online outlets through which authority, credibility and influence can be developed, it’s exceedingly difficult to carve out a space and a name for oneself that will stand out and earn recognition and respect from the masses.

Here are a few ways to gain more influence: 

Ask Great Questions And Listen Deeply

“Want to become more influential? Having influence is about finding solutions, being credible and doing what you say you will do. Instead of worrying about what to say, start by asking great questions and listening deeply. When you understand what the other person wants, get creative; how could you find a way to help the person get what they want while getting what you want at the same time?” - Kimberly Svoboda, Aspiration Catalyst

Be Physically Present And Share Observations

“We want to be where influencers are, see what they see and do what they do. To be an influencer, be physically present with others, share what you observe with them and demonstrate alternative responses to what they’re currently doing. My clients tend to focus on the middle by sharing opinions rather than observations, while undervaluing being present and demonstrative. Focus on others.” - Theodore May

Develop Self-Awareness And Empathy

“Influence isn’t a function of what you say or even what you do. It’s a matter of how you make people feel. In the long run, improving influence means developing greater self-awareness, heightened empathy and high levels of emotional intelligence. People don’t care about how smart you are or how much you know—but what you accomplish and what that means to them says it all.” - Philip Liebman

Click here to read the rest of the article on Forbes.com

Burned Out? Five Easy Ways to Build Resilience (Originally published on Forbes.com)

Burned Out? Five Easy Ways to Build Resilience (Originally published on Forbes.com)

We all go through times when we feel some measure of burnout: stress, energy drain, anxiousness or disconnection. Our bodies and minds work at less-than-favorable capacity in times of stress, and nothing gets our best. What can you do to get yourself back on track again? Here are five easy ways to begin:

Eight People You Can Count On To Help You Achieve Success: Your Personal Board of Directors

Eight People You Can Count On To Help You Achieve Success: Your Personal Board of Directors

According to leadership expert, Jim Rohn, you are the sum of the five people you spend the most time with. What if you expanded it to eight and created a kick ass team to mentor you to be your best? The sky is the limit!

What To Do When Your Workplace Culture Doesn’t Align With Your Authentic Self

Forbes Coaches Council


Kim Svoboda, CEO of Aspiration Catalyst® featured in Forbes

 

Workplace Culture Doesn’t Align with Your Authentic Self?  14 Tips

 

In a professional setting, being your most authentic self can help you forge open and honest working relationships, as demonstrating authenticity and transparency helps one come across as genuine and trustworthy. However, there are times when you may feel compelled to conform to cultural or organizational norms in your workplace that don’t align with your own personal values or morals.

Here are valuable tips on what to do about it: 

Evaluate the Gap Between Your Work Culture And Authentic Self

“Is it manageable? If it is, then find the alignment between who you are and the cultural or organizational norms and explore ways to increase that synergy. Where is the misalignment, and what is within your power to lessen the chasm? Are there allies who could help you navigate the challenges? Solicit their help. If the gap is too big, it might be time to find a new employer”. - Kimberly Svoboda, Aspiration Catalyst

Assess Next Steps To Find Greater Freedom Of Choice

The ideal solution is to choose to work for companies that allow you to show up as your authentic self. The reality is different, however, as many opt to work for a company, at least in the short term, in order to support their families. In these situations, assessing next steps—determining what kind of training would give you greater freedom of choice, figuring out what you can influence or what is under your control and so on—becomes critical. - Elizabeth S.

Consider How You Hold Yourself In Relation To Others

What is genuine or authentic for us changes as we grow. When arriving at a meeting, how do you choose to show up? Rushed and angry, upbeat and collaborative or open and present? Authentic self-expression is projected by how we hold ourselves in relation to others. Bringing forth our authentic selves in ways that contribute to company performance creates standout leaders with unique capabilities. - Jessica H.

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The Silver Lining, July Edition

It’s easy to get caught up in scarcity during these challenging times. You don’t have too look very far to find negative headlines, scary stories, conspiracy theories, and many other things that fill our heads with fear, uncertainty and doubt.

I’m looking further—beyond the headlines—to the place where we can find bright lights. I’d love for you to join me on this journey of gratitude.

This month, I am most grateful for:

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Time with my family

We’ve visited with my sister and her family several times and it has been great to have a change of scenery and watch our kids and our relationships deepen.

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We love our new rescue puppy, Nala.

She’s so exuberant about everything!  Our 5 yr old dog, Lolly, has welcomed Nala to our family and they play all often.  Nala has been good for Lolly’s confidence and well-being. Heck, she’s been great for all of us!

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Summer

1000% my favorite season. Running, biking, swimming with my triathlon training group, walking, movie watching in our backyard—it’s the most wonderful time of the year!

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Giving Back

We’ve donated to several charities and great causes like The Hunger Food Network, Black Lives Matter, Greater Chicago Food Depository, and more.  We are grateful to have enough to share with others and support the causes we are most passionate about.

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Aspiration Catalyst®

Supporting our clients through these times of turbulence has been incredible.  I’m grateful to work with leaders across the country who continue to inspire me with their perseverance and resilience.  From finding new ways to serve clients, to keeping employees inspired and connected through great leadership, and balancing high accountability with care and compassion—I am confident that we will all make it through this crisis TOGETHER.

What are you most grateful for? Inspire us with your comments below!

To Lead Others, Put On Your Own Oxygen Mask First

To Lead Others, Put On Your Own Oxygen Mask First

Early in my career, I was the first female sales manager at a fast-growing technology company. I was often the only woman in the room of other managers, which put me on a mission to recruit more female team members. Before long, I had several high-performing women on my team, and I was trying to teach them to become our future leaders.